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ERIC BERNE the best of Games People Play: run out the door

Ernest Kinnie

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Description:You best understand psychological concepts and strategies by experiencing them. Talking about them is good. Experiencing and then talking about them is much better. And now and then go have some Frivolous Fun to give your brain a rest.When your Adult, Parent, and Children work well together, changing the balance among them to meet the needs of the moment, you have a good life. If one becomes too dominant too much of the time, you close off possibilities for love, joy and adventure.You’ll also explore the games you play, your stamp collection, and the fairy tales that shape your life.1. Your Adult, Parent, and Children2. The games you play3. The joys of stamp collecting4. Fairy tales shape your life5. At the end of the dayFrivolous Fun1 YOUR ADULT, PARENT, AND CHILDRENStart with your Natural Child, the part that is adventurous, happy and free.Sudden in a shaft of sunlight,Even while the dust moves,There rises the hidden laughterOf children in the foliage.Quick now, here, now, always.Ridiculous the waste sad time,Stretching before and after.T. S. EliotIt will be hard for your Natural Child to come out and play if your Adult, Parent or Unnatural Children get in the way.Adult is your words-data-logic, computer brain. It has an enormous amount of information about the world, knowledge essential for your survival. But your Adult is usually aware of only superficial aspects of the natural world. For instance your Adult glances at a tree, quickly classifies it “tree” using 2 or 3 defining characteristics and pays no further attention to it. The tree has become a word.Our schools and much of our culture reward that kind of experiencing and you become a proficient word pusher, who hasn’t felt the bark of a real tree in years. Your Adult will want good, logical reasons why you should spend time walking down the street acting like a kid.Your Parent may also give you plenty of trouble. It’s your authoritarian, judgmental part that expects you to measure up. Taking a silly walk in the sunshine when there’s work to be done is not measuring up. You should be finishing that report, cleaning your bedroom, reading a good book, instead acting weird and attracting the attention of strangers. What good is that going to do anybody?Your Parent is also only aware of the more surface aspects of Reality. “That grass needs cutting!” “That sidewalk is filthy!” “She shouldn’t be wearing those colors!” “Why are you wasting your time on a stupid walk?”To help reassure your Adult and Parent, tell them the book you are reading told you to, and it’s written by a PhD psychologist who knows what he’s talking about.Then there’s your Unnatural Children, shaped and scrambled when you were a little tyke playing in the sandbox. We all grew up in environments that were both toxic and nurturant. Unnatural Children are created by under- or over-controlling parents, dangerous neighborhood, serious illness, lousy schools, etc.It never occurs to a beaten down Unnatural Child that puddles are to jump into, strange doors are to open, weird clothes are for trying on, and frogs are to sleep with. A rebellious Unnatural Child does them all.Everybody has both beaten down and rebellious Unnatural Children because nobody grows up in a perfect environment, or has perfect genes. Your beaten down Unnatural Child will be too scared to go on that walk. Your rebellious Unnatural Child will tell me to go jump in a cold lake.We have made it easy for you to find a PDF Ebooks without any digging. And by having access to our ebooks online or by storing it on your computer, you have convenient answers with ERIC BERNE the best of Games People Play: run out the door. To get started finding ERIC BERNE the best of Games People Play: run out the door, you are right to find our website which has a comprehensive collection of manuals listed.
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Description: You best understand psychological concepts and strategies by experiencing them. Talking about them is good. Experiencing and then talking about them is much better. And now and then go have some Frivolous Fun to give your brain a rest.When your Adult, Parent, and Children work well together, changing the balance among them to meet the needs of the moment, you have a good life. If one becomes too dominant too much of the time, you close off possibilities for love, joy and adventure.You’ll also explore the games you play, your stamp collection, and the fairy tales that shape your life.1. Your Adult, Parent, and Children2. The games you play3. The joys of stamp collecting4. Fairy tales shape your life5. At the end of the dayFrivolous Fun1 YOUR ADULT, PARENT, AND CHILDRENStart with your Natural Child, the part that is adventurous, happy and free.Sudden in a shaft of sunlight,Even while the dust moves,There rises the hidden laughterOf children in the foliage.Quick now, here, now, always.Ridiculous the waste sad time,Stretching before and after.T. S. EliotIt will be hard for your Natural Child to come out and play if your Adult, Parent or Unnatural Children get in the way.Adult is your words-data-logic, computer brain. It has an enormous amount of information about the world, knowledge essential for your survival. But your Adult is usually aware of only superficial aspects of the natural world. For instance your Adult glances at a tree, quickly classifies it “tree” using 2 or 3 defining characteristics and pays no further attention to it. The tree has become a word.Our schools and much of our culture reward that kind of experiencing and you become a proficient word pusher, who hasn’t felt the bark of a real tree in years. Your Adult will want good, logical reasons why you should spend time walking down the street acting like a kid.Your Parent may also give you plenty of trouble. It’s your authoritarian, judgmental part that expects you to measure up. Taking a silly walk in the sunshine when there’s work to be done is not measuring up. You should be finishing that report, cleaning your bedroom, reading a good book, instead acting weird and attracting the attention of strangers. What good is that going to do anybody?Your Parent is also only aware of the more surface aspects of Reality. “That grass needs cutting!” “That sidewalk is filthy!” “She shouldn’t be wearing those colors!” “Why are you wasting your time on a stupid walk?”To help reassure your Adult and Parent, tell them the book you are reading told you to, and it’s written by a PhD psychologist who knows what he’s talking about.Then there’s your Unnatural Children, shaped and scrambled when you were a little tyke playing in the sandbox. We all grew up in environments that were both toxic and nurturant. Unnatural Children are created by under- or over-controlling parents, dangerous neighborhood, serious illness, lousy schools, etc.It never occurs to a beaten down Unnatural Child that puddles are to jump into, strange doors are to open, weird clothes are for trying on, and frogs are to sleep with. A rebellious Unnatural Child does them all.Everybody has both beaten down and rebellious Unnatural Children because nobody grows up in a perfect environment, or has perfect genes. Your beaten down Unnatural Child will be too scared to go on that walk. Your rebellious Unnatural Child will tell me to go jump in a cold lake.We have made it easy for you to find a PDF Ebooks without any digging. And by having access to our ebooks online or by storing it on your computer, you have convenient answers with ERIC BERNE the best of Games People Play: run out the door. To get started finding ERIC BERNE the best of Games People Play: run out the door, you are right to find our website which has a comprehensive collection of manuals listed.
Our library is the biggest of these that have literally hundreds of thousands of different products represented.

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